Being good to each other is so important, guys.
Unfriendly reminder that in America it’s reasonable to say an unarmed black kid deserved to be shot six times because he might have robbed a convenience store, but a white kid shouldn’t be kicked off the high school football team just because he violently raped a girl.
"My friend jokingly decided to get a henna tattoo of a mustache while at the beach. The foreign worker didn’t understand what he was saying, so she asked him to write down what he wanted. This was the result." [via]
every fucking day
What a deep fucking show. It’s hilarious, but they had some serious, life changing moments.
Latest positive news out of Ferguson. Community coming together.
Anonymous said: in the cg/l community, why are male littles met with so much negativity? (I'm not saying it happens all the time, or that its ok, but I've seen it and if u have any helpful information is love to know)
I really don’t believe male littles are any less accepted than female littles by the general population. Male submissives generally have a hard time being accepted by Dominant males because of the disgusting little masculinity complexes men have when it comes to being submissive in bed or liking anal and things like that. Fine example of how the patriarchy fucks men up their own ass.
Stolen from the internet:
As the mono, I was run by fear for a few years of our relationship: fear of loss, fear of inadequacy, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, fear of being pathetic, etc.
Sir and worked really hard at trying to make things work out because we wanted it to work out.
Then something really weird happened. One of Sir’s other relationships didn’t work out and ended. He pined for the other partner and talked about other loves of his past life in a similar way. He talked his way through grief, confiding that he never stops loving anyone, just compartmentalizes the emotion and continues to think of his previous partners fondly and always holds their memories very close to his heart.
I suddenly realized that Sir would never stop loving me, regardless of whatever happened in our relationship. He would never stop loving me. Because he, as a poly, has that capacity. He is capable of loving forever.
As a mono, that is a foreign concept to me. I am mono, a serial monogamous. In order to function, I have to emotionally end one relationship in order to go on, that is not true for my poly partner.
From that perspective, contrary to popular opinion, polys run a greater risk in a poly/mono relationship than monos.